This past weekend, Schweffy and I talked on the phone. I felt like I was there for her. I felt like we were getting closer again. But the very next day she tells me not to talk about serious things with her. Because I’ve noticed lately she’s been ignoring a lot of my texts. And it’s not because she’s sleeping or something, it’s because she doesn’t feel like answering me.
We’ve been doing pretty bad lately. Here’s a chart (I’m bored) of how our relationship has gone (dark red=friends, red=best friends, green=relationship)
We’re basically at our worst point since early December, and sadly we’re still going down. But if my suspicions are correct, and she is losing interest in me, well then I don’t want to be best friends at all. She’s going to have to decide if I’m worth going out of my way for. Am I going to need some reassurance sometimes? Yes. I wish she didn’t hate giving it to me so much.
June 25th, 2008 at 5:13 am
I know you really care about her but YOUR RELATIONSHIPS OVER. shes bound to lose interest in you all women lose interest in their exes unless they’re not over them. and from what you said about her i think she’s very much over you, shes already been through another relationship already and everything.
I told you so. its bound to happen. just brush it off and move on.
June 25th, 2008 at 6:13 am
Yes moving on might be the best thing to do. But I know it is not that easy. Much easier said than done. Y’all have been friends for a long time and giving that up is most likely not going to be immediate. Anyways, I’m sorry you’re having a rough time right now. Let me know if i can help or if you want to talk. :D
June 26th, 2008 at 5:39 pm
dude i know you prolly dont want to hear this but i dont think she cares about you anymore. like, im sure she cares about you as a friend, but i dont think theres any more than that. i know a relationships out of the question. im not even talking about that. im talking about best friends. seriously i dont think youre her best friend. shes prolly got someone else whose making her happier than at the peak of your lovely graph. no offense dude but thats prolly how its goin down. if you need proof the fact that she hasnt responded to this post means she doesnt give a shit. or if shes just straight up not reading this blog, she obviously doesnt care. and shes not texting you back, and everything else.
i think you should give her a break. stop talking to her. if she cares she’ll want to talk to you and text, if not you wont hear from her. give it like 3 days or so.
dude i know you care about her a lot. but i think maybe its time to realize she doesnt return the feelings.
July 7th, 2010 at 3:14 am
I was glad to read such information,Jul 7, 2010 3:13:56 PM